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these are relatively short answers to questions on the following topics:

LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP

LOSS AND GRIEF

HEALTH AND WELLBEING

PSYCHIC AND SPIRITUAL

LAW OF ATTRACTION / POWER OF THE MIND

LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP

Question:
Will I find true love this year (2009)? or should i just give up

Psychic Advice:
Never give up! Often, when you let go of what you want is when it arrives. When I gave up on men and dating is when I met my husband. Just focus on truly loving yourself right now, and let yourself shine. Your true love will find you because you will be shining - that is when you are most attractive. Being depressed or down about being alone is not going to attract love because these are not attractive energies. Love yourself and you will attract the love you desire - others treat us as we treat ourselves.

Question :
After surviving a messy relationship breakdown from a pisces man (I am taurus)I have met a lovely Scorpio man. He treats me like a lady but tells me not to fall in love. Which of course I have done. How can I tell if he is the right man for me or not? Is he my soulmate? It all feels so right but am I wasting my time?

Psychic Advice:
If he is telling you not to fall in love, that means that he is not willing to make any kind of serious commitment and you could get very hurt. You are already in love, so it will hurt anyway, but you need to decide how much time you want to invest in this relationship, because it is not likely to go any further.

Question       :
My wife cheated on me and divorced me and has a child with the new man, i still love her. Will she ever come back to me, and if she does will we ever be able to be happy, and will our families ever get over all that has happend?

Psychic Advice:
Although this is very difficult and painful, it would be best for you to let go and move forward with your life. Try to forgive her and heal the wound inside you so you can be free to love again.

Question       :
my friend told me she might be gay and that she liked me. i have had dreams and visions of making out with her. i'm pretty sure that i'm straight, what do these visions mean?

Psychic Advice:
A lot of people who are straight can have attraction to or fantasies about being with someone of the same sex, and many people experiment with different sexual experiences. It does not mean that you are gay. If you decide to explore this with your friend, you must be considerate of her potentially deeper feelings for you, and you must take care not to ruin the friendship by crossing that line. Sometimes, just knowing that someone likes you can trigger fantasies about being with them, because they have flattered you and your psyche wants to see how you feel about it. The key is to think long and hard before you actually do anything, because what is done cannot be undone. If you think you might be curious to explore this with her, talk to her about it first and share your concerns with her.

Question       :
i AM STILL VERY MUCH IN LOVE I WITH MY EX, i AM A RECOVERING ALCHOLIC. wE HAVE A DAUGHTER TOGETHER AND i WANT TO KNOW WHAT THE ODDS ARE OF US EVER GETTING BACK TOGETHER

Psychic Advice:
When alcoholism has been a factor, it takes a great deal of healing for everyone involved, especially to heal trust. The key is to take everything one step at a time. Don't keep saying that you have changed, but do keep showing that you have changed.

Dear Grace,
My question is regarding my love/relationship to my husband who is still having his affaire with his assistant. Although I start to organise a life without him, I still have hope that we can come together again, love each other even in a more intensive way and have a good family life together with our kids (2 &4). You told me on the phone, that you see that he is still loving me and that this affaire is only temporary....  That you see, that you see a positive time next spring for me... I can not forget these words... Can you give me an advice? Do you see any answer, if we ever will come together again? Do you think we can have a second chance soon? How shall I behave to get him back?

Psychic Advice:
I am glad to hear that you are reclaiming your life and your power. It is really important for you to keep doing this for yourself, not for your husband. You lost yourself in your marriage and in being a mother, as many women do, and you must reclaim yourself in order to have happy and loving relationships.

It would also be a good idea to wear red in order to promote your power and passion, particularly when you are with your husband. When he sees you, you should appear happy and confident, sexy and independent, and you should give him compliments. Tell him that you realize that he had to take these steps to get what he needed, and it forced you to take steps to get what you needed, and for that you are grateful to him. Tell him that you forgive him, and you must mean it.

Tell him that you will give him until the Spring to come back to you, otherwise you will move on. Tell him that you still love him as your husband and as the father of your children. When you say these things, do not beg or plead. Come from a place of power.

Over these next few months until the Spring, you are both healing, so be patient. The door is not closed between you. You will know clearly in March one way or the other, and remember, the decision is not only up to him, it is up to you to decide what you truly want for yourself and your happiness as well.

Question       :
 Hi,  I have known a guy over internet for quite a while and he decided to ask me out, however he lives far away from me and everytime he makes arrangement to meet up, always an excuse come out. We text each other from time to time and i do know that hes interested me but What I dont know is why we never get to meet up??!! If you're reading this Email would you please tell me that if we're ever going to meet up or if he's not interested to meet up and just playing me?

Psychic Advice:
It is very common for people who meet on the Internet to avoid meeting in person, even if they say they want to. This can happen for many reasons: some people are very shy, some people think they are too unattractive, some people have lied and don't want to face those lies, and some people are already in another relationship. If he keeps avoiding meeting you, then there is a definite problem and you might want to consider letting it go.

Question       :
My partner and I have been together for almost 3 years. He is 22 and I am 26. We are planning to get married in October and we also have 2 young children. He is having second thoughts and my family are being demanding. Should we wait until a better time or will this wedding go ahead?

Psychic Advice:
It is more important that you stay together than that you get married right now. Your partner is young and already has 2 children. Marriage is a big step, a big commitment, and a big responsibility. It is not wise to push him to make a step he is not ready to take - you could risk pushing him away. Your family may be demanding, but they are not the ones living your life. Ask him what is bothering him or "freaking him out" about the wedding. Maybe it is not necessarily the timing but the method? Maybe he would be more comfortable with something very small and intimate, or maybe he is just not quite ready for that step. The most important thing is your relationship, not the piece of paper. Talk to him and be willing to compromise and be flexible.

Question       :
I was wondering, since you are capable of reading the Akashic Records, if any people have had soulmates that are of the same gender? I am a woman and have a truly amazing girlfriend, but am not entirely sure that we are meant to share our lives together forever. Yet we both feel as if we've known one another in many previous lifetimes. I would greatly appriciate your views on this issue as I highly respect you, and look to your guidance as possibly a very ascended master?  Grace you gave me hope when I needed it.

Psychic Advice:
It is very possible to have a soulmate who is the same sex, even if you are not homosexual. I had a client who was in her sixties and heterosexual but met a woman that she knew was her soulmate, even though that woman was also heterosexual. They lived together very happily.

I discuss this in a recent article I wrote: "A soul mate is a soul with whom we have connected on many other planes, in many other times, often playing different roles for one another. Some life circumstances allow us to be together as life partners, while other circumstances make this more challenging, and sometimes impossible. Some soul mates find themselves in a lifetime where they are both the same sex, and although they may not be homosexual, they can feel compelled to be together."

Here is the link to the rest of that article:

It can also be that your friend is a member of your soul group or soul family.

I am glad that my work has been helpful to you. I hope you find these articles to be helpful as well.

LOSS AND GRIEF

Question       :
In the summer, my family and I went on holiday to France and left our dog with my sisters friend. He was fine until the last day of our holiday when we got a phone call saying He was not well and had been taken to the vet. We were anxious all day and night and I just prayed He would be OK and last till we got home to see him. However, he died before we got the chance to say goodbye to him and I can never forgive myself. Please can you tell me if He is OK and that he doesnt think we abanded him.

Psychic Advice:
He doesn't think you abandoned him. He chose to go while you were away so you would not witness his death. Animals leave when they are ready, and when they feel that you don't need them anymore. He's okay and he's still with you. Don't feel guilty.

Question       :
i was just wondering , my mother's life was taken unjustly and i was wondering if she made it to heaven, cause i hear if your death was tragic like murder you stick around, is this true?

Psychic Advice:
I'm sorry for your loss. It is not always true that souls get stuck here in such cases. I feel your mother found peace even in such a terrible situation. I hope you find peace also.

Question       :
My Mother passed away 3 weeks ago I was wondering how ahe passed and if she is ok and with us in spirit? Could she hear us at the hospital? Thanks so much this will bring me much peace

Psychic Advice:
I'm sorry to hear of your loss. I don't usually answer this type of question, but I will this one time. I feel that your Mom slipped out of her body, and did not experience consciously what her body experienced. I feel she was around you in the hospital, but could not quite hear what was being said, but could feel it. She is at peace and resting. You should be able to have dreams of her and feel her in a couple of weeks.

Question       :
Will I ever be able to get out of this debt situation that I am in. My husband passed away 4 years ago and now I am the only breadwinner, life for me since then has been nothing but a battle, will this situation every normalise and will I ever be happy again.

Psychic Advice:
I am sorry to hear of your loss of your husband and the burden it has put on you, both emotionally and financially. I don't normally answer this type of personal question outside of a personal reading, but I am receiving guidance that says that you will be able to breathe easier within two years. You have to stop being angry and frustrated, because this is wasting a lot of energy. You have to let go of the battle and try to take the path of least resistance. Make peace with your situation and realize that you have already survived the worst of it. Let go of the idea that life is so unfair, so that you can start to enjoy it again.

Question       :
last year, I lost my sister to cancer. In February I experienced a still birth at 23 weeks pregnant. I was devastated, but am now trying to pick up the pieces and trying for a baby again. I have been invited to many baby showers for friends. Is it wrong not to go? It is very difficult for me.

Psychic Advice:
Grief is a very painful and difficult thing - in fact, it can be very debilitating. You have suffered two losses in a row only a few months ago. Going to baby showers is not only difficult because of your loss of your baby, it is also difficult to be around people who are so happy and celebrating - you would really have to fake it. It is perfectly okay for you not to go to baby showers until you feel up to it - you don't have to give any excuse, just simply say you can't make it. You also don't have to put yourself through the pain of buying a gift - unless it is someone really close to you, they won't even notice that you didn't give them a gift. The truth is that when you are grieving, it is difficult to celebrate someone else's happiness - this is sad but true, and you shouldn't feel guilty about it. Time does heal all wounds, and when you are ready, you will feel good again and will start anew.

Question       :
i have lost someone close to me to the spirit world i would like to know if this person is around me and if you have any info on this person or a message as im finding it difficult to carry on living.

Psychic Advice:
I am really sorry for your loss. I know how painful it is to lose a loved one - I've been through it a couple of times now. What I can tell you is that it does get better the more time passes. I know it feels like you will never feel better or happy again, but you will if you give yourself time to heal. I can't really give you a message from the other side - I prefer not to do that kind of work. But I can give you this message from having been through that pain of loss: take it easy on yourself, do whatever you can to nurture yourself, even if that means sleeping a lot. You will have dreams that allow you to reconnect with your loved one. Take all the time you need to heal, and most of all, be loving and kind with yourself, because that is what your loved one would want for you.

Question       :
Hello, My question is regarding my mental state. I lost a best friend to suicide last year and it really hurts to this day. She was my Wife. I Dont feel healthy in my head anymore. Am i going to Live a long life or commit suicide?

Psychic Advice:
I am so sorry for your loss. Dealing with the death of a loved one, particularly by suicide, is very painful and difficult. It takes time to recover from, and what you are feeling is persistent grief. Grief does heal in time, but it can take awhile. You must be kind, gentle and patient with yourself during this process. You must also work with forgiving your wife, and perhaps also forgiving yourself if necessary.

As you know, when it comes to suicide, that is a choice - you hold the power of choice with regard to your own life. You will heal and recover from this pain in time, if you give yourself that time. For now, I wish you profound peace.

HEALTH AND WELLBEING

Question       :
Do I have cancer?

Psychic Advice:
There is no way to answer this type of question without doing a thorough personal reading for you. Remember that the body responds to the mind and the emotions, and there are many, many people who have restored balance and wellbeing to their body even after being diagnosed with cancer. In any case, the situation is a wake up call and an invitation for you to make some changes in your life and take better care of yourself.

Question         :
I am interested in get some advice this is to with being trapped as a person who is a victim, who is meant to be let down, and yet still stole my success confidence daughter and oppressed me to be racist meaning stick with your own colour and my intelligence and brain has taken My daughter has been abused and neglected. so many people abuse my kid by doing ocult work to manipulate her. Whilst I am not with my daughter, ocult spiteful work has been done on me to go through oppression madness and other barriers to stop me from seeing my daughter. I am 1005 inocent I was meant to be a role model to my daugher and supporter to my mum. I Have been trapped in a very spiteful demonic way, a kind of oppression and black mail, to be vulnerable and also foul mouthed whilst the chap I had a kid with is getting away with it.

Psychic Advice:
I can sense your torment. First, you must calm yourself down and center yourself. Negative forces seek to ramp up your energy so they can use it. You need to ground yourself in peace and calm. Try walking barefoot in the grass, sitting at the base of a tree, or if you are near the ocean, put your feet in the ocean.

Visualize a bubble of white light around you, protecting you. Imagine that the outside of this bubble is reflective, like a mirror, so nothing negative can enter your space or even see you. Imagine the same reflective bubble of white light surrounding your daughter.

If you get a sense of any of these tormentors or negative beings, imagine them shrinking, becoming just a tiny speck, then send them out into space until you cannot see them anymore. Say, "I banish you and command you to go to your rightful place".

Above all, maintain peace and calm. Do not let anything rile you up. Do not give your power away to being a victim - do not ever use this word again. Hold your head up high, maintain your peace and your strength - do not give your power away in anger or prejudice or outrage.

Imagine that there are angels of love with you and your daughter, protecting you both. Ask for help from these angels, ask them directly for what you want and need. Take your power back and hold it in the light of love - do not hate or despise anyone, this only feeds the negativity. Love is the most powerful force in the Universe, let it fill you so you may prevail.

PSYCHIC AND SPIRITUAL

Question :
You are such a gift...this is totally what i needed to read....anxiety in the morning after a great night of work or play......ouch!!!! Trying to feel what the next step is workwise and still seeming to be connecting with lots of grace as a cab driver...you are right sometimes it is not fun being psychic..seems like more work!!

Psychic Advice:
I'm glad you enjoyed the column about being empathic. As a cab driver, it would be a good idea to surround your taxi in a bubble of light and set the intention that the doors of you cab are showers of light that cleanse everyone who enters of any and all negativity. Also, visualize a partition of light between you and your passengers that protects your energy. Make sure that whenever you get out of the cab, you place both feet firmly on the ground to center and ground yourself. These steps will leave you with more energy at the end of your shift.

Question       :
I am 22, male. I am a perfectly normal person but this problem starts when I hear ....i cant even write about this problem.....my head seems to buzz and my hands and feet becomes sweety, there is some pain just below the ribs exactly at the center....I m afraid of heights n fast revolving objects....any distinct sound coming continously drives me crazy.

Psychic Advice:
It feels like this problem originates in a past lifetime. The pain you are feeling is in your solar plexus, which is the center of your power - it is causing you to feel powerless, uncentered and afraid. You need to wake up each day saying to yourself, "I am free, I am free now, it is the year 2008 and I am a free man." I believe this will help. If not, then you need to do some past life healing work.

Question        :
I dont even know how to say this i think i get possesed in my cabin between 3:00 am to 6:00 on a regular basis and its more intense everytime. it started with it just waking me up by tapping my legs then a couple weeks later it made me have like a seizure where my whole body was lifted and i was gritting my teath "help me" and the more i think about it it was not me saying it and tonight i heard crying out side and it felt like a was magnetized to my bed. then i think i saw it but i can only describe it as WHAT THE FUCk i have never had anything like this ever. i dont have powers, i just want to sleeepp at night.

Psychic Advice:
First, you must not fear it, because it will use your fear against you. This entity has been testing your susceptibility to it, like a shark bumps up to its prey to see if it is vulnerable. You must call upon angels of love and light to surround you and protect you and your home. You must not use any substances like drugs or alcohol, especially not before bed. Imagine that you are completely surrounded by a bubble of white light that is reflective on the outside, like a mirror. Also, imagine a dome of mirrored light around your cabin, that deflects away all negativity. You can use salt to surround your cabin - create a complete ring of salt around your cabin and set the intention that this wards off all that is not pure love and light.

If you have another encounter, repeat to yourself that you love yourself, that you love your life, then feel love for this entity and tell it that in the name of love, you command it to go to its rightful place and banish it from you forever. Imagine the entity trapped in a pyramid of pink light, then see that pyramid shrinking down until it is a tiny speck, then send that speck out into space until you can't see it anymore.

You will be okay, just do not be afraid. Summon your strength, will and courage to face your fear, and do it with love. Negative entities can feed on fear and negativity, but they cannot fight against love. Hold pure love in your heart and mind.

(Here is a ceremony for protection:

A SIMPLE SALT RING FOR PROTECTION
Preparations
Mix together 1 part salt to 3 parts water. The salt can be any variety, if you have an affinity to the ocean, use sea salt. Pure spring water is recommended, but tap water will do if that is all you have.

Ritual
Circle the area to be protected splashing the salt-water as you go around. Do this three times. While doing each circle, repeat three times,

"Thrice around and thrice repeat, all evil does this ring defeat." See the shield come up as you finish the last circle. It is done.)

Question       :
Hi Grace, I am wondering what Synchronicity is and how does one need to act upon it in some way. Recently I was submitting an essay for my Media studies we had to write a one week program of being a journalist at a newspaper where I was doing work experience. I wrote that the following day I was to meet to elderly ladies who were holding on a fashion parade to raise money for an African village. The next morning a friend called and asked if I wanted to go to a fashion parade at her friends house. When I arrived I couldn't believe it but upon a board by the front door was a series of photographs and information of an African village. Questioning further I discovered two elderly ladies had arranged the event to raise money for this particular village. What does this mean? And the problem with this opportunity as with others, I don't have the confidence to write an article about it. I don't feel I am good enough at writing. So what does this all mean? Thank you Grace I don't often write to psychics, not because I am not a believer, but because many have an essence which I am wary of. You feel very true.

Psychic Advice:
Synchronicity indicates that you are on the right track: in the right place at the right time, and doing exactly what you are supposed to be doing. The more you follow these synchronicities, the more they can guide you on your path. I would say that this incident is indicating that not only are you supposed to be writing on this subject, but you also need to gain more trust and confidence in yourself and in your intuitive abilities.

Let your intuition guide you to what you are supposed to write about. It is not necessary to be a great writer (although writing usually improves the more you do it, just like anything else, including intuition!). What is important is that your writing touches people, and it will do that if the topic touches you and is meaningful to you, like with this fundraising event for Africa. (This incident could also indicate that you are supposed to do some more work to help that African village).

Don't be so hard on yourself - criticism can be crippling. Just follow your heart, your guidance and your synchronicities - let yourself be guided to express your truth and your passion without judgment.

Dear Grace,
I would just like to say how grateful I am that you are writing your weekly column.  I always find your teachings helpful and I usually feel happier and calmer after taking on board your insights as to why certain things happen. This week's column on time travel and telportation addressed ideas I have  puzzled over for a while, and was thinking about the day before your column came out.  Basically, there seems to be no logical barrier to teleportation, we are after all, merely a collection of rucks in the fabric of spacetime, we are not made of solid particles.  So why can't we teleport more easily? Think of the fuel it would save and the reduced impact on global warming.  I shall do a bit of research on that Philadelphia experiment you mention, it sounds intriguing. Thanks again for another enjoyable column.

Psychic Advice:
Thank you so much for your feedback - I really appreciate it. I'm glad you enjoyed the column on time travel. We can only really teleport successfully when we increase our vibration, raise our consciousness and become more light - right now, humans are too dense in every way. Maintaining a high vibration and raising our consciousness is the best way to deal with everything at this time and in the coming times on Earth - keep choosing to rise above, keep choosing to see the light, to be the light.

Dear Grace,
I read your advice about Star Children and my immediate thought was, "Thank God! Someone who actually understands!" I think, right now, we are almost in limbo waiting to serve. It seems like a "Hurry up and wait"! We've spent all this time and energy on earth working, growing, receiving information, processing and practicing. Now what??? At this point, we should be almost accustomed to being a star on this planet, but it still feels lonely. Thank you for listening and acknowledging us!

Psychic Advice:
I'm glad you enjoyed my column on Star Children. Many of those from the stars often feel lonely and misunderstood. The time of the calling has begun. This is what we've all been waiting for. Just stay positive and fasten your seat-belt! All eyes in the Universe are on the Earth at this time, to see what we choose to create and experience collectively.

Question       : I am full-time believer in the Zodiac, ever since I began looking into it more in-depth, everything is just so on-point. I'm first day Gemini, and am very intellectually intuitive.. makes sense. Anyways, I am really curious as to what you take on Astrology is, in relation with the different intuitive types and if you are willing to reveal your sign? (Thank you for blessing me and countless others with joy, whenever I feel I need some help, I ask for God's Grace and I picture your beautiful face. You are a huge role-model for me and I reallly want to meet you in person)

Psychic Advice:
I believe that astrology is like a roadmap of our intentions, gifts, potential and pitfalls in this lifetime. It is a snapshot of the influences we will face in our life, and we will have certain tendencies of how we deal with those influences based on our Sun/birth sign, rising sign, and Moon sign, etc.

My Birthday is August 1, so I am a Leo.

Question       :
I was meditating when a vision of me walking over a long extremly foggy bridge, over one cliff to the other side,to a very large castle ,which was dark and foggy as well. I walked in and all was dark and the statues were almost black. I sat in the center and meditated, large amounts of light filled the room, all turned white and all the fog left and even the bridge cleared. Both sides of the bridge became beautiful and the castle became one of the most beautiful things i've ever seen, and it was mine. Can you please tell me why I saw such a thing? What does it mean. That is not what i was trying to invision. It just happened.

Psychic Advice:
This vision means that things are clearing up for you - you have been unclear as to certain changes to make, hence the bridge. The castle is you and what is yours and what you've been wanting, and it is becoming clear, bright and beautiful - you are starting to be able to see your true path unfold before you, and you are forgiving the past (the dark statues). Keep using meditation to gain clarity and direction. The Universe communicates in symbols - in your meditation, you can ask what the symbols mean as you see them.

Question       :
i talked with another psychic and she told me to be careful that some guys are watching me and that they plan on assaulting me. does this mean i am going to get raped by these men?

Psychic Advice:
Do not be afraid, just keep paying attention to everything around you, and always listen to your own intuition. Envision white light around yourself in a bubble of light that divinely protects you. Imagine light everywhere you go, and in your home and surrounding your home. I don't know what this psychic was picking up on or what her agenda was, but she should have given you tools to work with. You can also send angels to those who might be watching you, surround them in the divine light of love, and send them on a path where they are guided by love. Affirm that you are safe and protected at all times.

Question       :
My daughter was born on with a veil on her face.  I was wondering if she is going to be psychic, or if she is already psychic?

Psychic Advice:
As you know, ancient folklore states that children who are born with a veil over their face tend to be psychic. I do not have any personal experience with this, however, I believe all children are born psychic and their parents, family, teachers and society train them out of it. It is best for you to listen to what your child communicates with you, and encourage your child to maintain a connection with her divine guidance, and to trust it.

Question       :
If you're third eye or Pineal gland is removed through surgery can you still be Psychic?  My Third eye was removed, and I can still feel some Psychic intuition so maybe I am still Psychic even though I don't have a third eye.

Psychic Advice:
Yes, you are still psychic. Psychic ability does not come through the gland, but through the chakra or energy center in the middle of the forehead, as well as through the crown chakra. No one can take it away from you, only you can shut it down. Just stay open to your intuition, keep working with it and listening to it, and it will get stronger.

Question       :
I recently awoke from a very realistic dream in which my husband of 42 years died in my arms. His only words were "I've always loved you" Do you have any advice?

Psychic Advice:
Death in dreams often indicates a change - it is not always death. There may be  changes that are occurring in your life right now and in his, but the message is for you to know how much he has always loved you. Take that message to heart and let that be the purpose of the dream

LAW OF ATTRACTION / POWER OF THE MIND

dear grace,
i was wondering if you think about something you want, actually believe you have it. will it happen. the power of the mind . god bless you.

Psychic Advice:
It is the Law of Attraction - what you think about most of the time is what you will draw to you and experience. But, positive thinking alone is not enough. You must imagine yourself living that situation as if it is happening now. You must feel the feelings of living that experience now - feel the joy, the gratitude, the pride that you would feel if you were living that life right now. The more you picture yourself in that reality, and the more you affirm your gratitude for living in that reality now, the more you attract and manifest that reality. Wishing alone does not make it so, you also have to take action and take all the necessary steps to move closer to your goal and desired outcome. Just stay focused on what you want, and keep moving toward it in every possible way.

HI GRACE, I WAS JUST WONDERING IF YOU CAN ANSWER MY free QUESTION. WILL I WANT TO KNOW IF I GET THE POSITION IN AS A TRAIN MOVER DIRECTOR. GOD BLESS YOU.

Psychic Advice:
The questions that I answer for free are questions that could help a lot of people in my free online advice column. The question you asked is very personal, and I could only properly address it by doing a personal reading for you. What I can suggest is to imagine yourself in this job - act every day as if this job is yours and do what you would do if you had that job. Imagine yourself wearing the uniform, if there is one, and keep going to the place where you would work. It helps a lot to really visualize what you want and feel yourself having it in order to manifest it.

Question       :
Will I pass the S.A.T. the next time I take it?

Psychic Advice:
You just need to relax more. You put too much pressure on yourself and are too hard on yourself. If you relax during tests, you will be able to think better. You have to remember to breathe, because holding your breath doesn't let you think properly.

When you take the SAT, get there early so you are not stressed for time. Close your eyes and imagine yourself knowing the answers easily. When you read the questions, close your eyes for a moment after each one and repeat it to yourself, then look at the answers and see which one jumps out at you. There will always be one or two that look right, but trust your first impression to be right.

There is a great website called www.freerice.com that lets you practice your vocabulary with multiple choice answers AND HELPS FEED STARVING PEOPLE IN THE WORLD for every correct answer you get. It actually makes multiple choice testing fun, and helps you learn to trust your first impression - and you would be helping other people at the same time.

You have it in you to succeed at whatever you want, but you must believe in yourself, you must be patient with yourself and you must relax. Just be confident. Confidence not only makes you successful at whatever you do, it also makes you more attractive.

One good way to calm your nerves and feel more confident is to put your right hand over your diaphragm (above your belly button and at the base of your ribs) - this is called your solar plexus, it is the center of your power. If you hold your right hand there (think of Napoleon, one of the most powerful men who ever lived) and breathe into your solar plexus, you will feel immediately calm, centered and confident. Use this whenever you feel nervous.

Here is a link to a column I wrote about studying for exams - you might find it helpful:

Question       :
when shall i get an job for which i am desparetly & madly waiting for?what's the problem that i am not getting job inspite of such high qualification? what's wrong may i get within this week plz give me straigth answer within 10 mins plz as am waiting for this answer since long time.

Psychic Advice:
Your anger and frustration is pushing everything away. You must be calm and imagine the job you want, imagine it being offered to you, see yourself shaking hands and happy at that job. You must be at peace because your desperation is pushing opportunity away from you.



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