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DEVELOP YOUR OWN INTUITION

What is intuition?

Everyone has intuition - it is like an inner compass that we are given to guide us on the journey of life. Many people have experienced their own intuition as a gut feeling, that "little voice", hunches, deja vu, or dreams that come true. Intuition is a guidance system that is first designed to keep us safe, and then to lead us to our greatest joy. This is why it is so important that we learn to listen to it and follow it.

How can I follow my own intuition?

Trust is the key. First, you start with the small things, like asking yourself what food is best for you to eat today, or what color is best for you to wear. Ask the question once, then get quiet and get a sense of what “feels” right for you. Don’t second guess your answer – always trust your first response to be most accurate. Once you get used to doing this, then you can build trust for the more important things in life. The clearer your question is, the clearer the answer will be. Be specific, but not limiting. Remember that whenever you ask the Universe a question, an answer is given, you just have to wait for it, then pay attention to everything, because the answer can come in any form. The Universe often communicates in symbols or “signs”, and these can be anything from a bumper sticker you see on the highway, to a song you hear on the radio. When dealing with very important questions, it can be helpful to ask for three clear signs that you can easily recognize. You must learn to observe everything, to be quiet and still and to listen inside yourself. Meditation is very helpful for honing your intuition (I offer a five minute meditation recording for developing intuition which incorporates the visualization that I use in my work to access and attune to higher guidance). Trust is the key to intuition – the more you trust it and yourself, the stronger your intuition becomes.

What is the purpose of intuition?

We were not dropped to Earth without directions. Our intuition is the inner guidance system that assists in guiding us on our life path. The primary purpose of our intuitive guidance is to keep us safe from harm; in this sense, intuition is aligned with instinct, and is inherent within every human being. Once safety and security are assured, our intuition seeks to guide us to our highest truth, our greatest purpose and our truest joy and bliss. Creativity is also strongly linked to intuition, and those who are most creative are often very intuitive, and vice versa. The processes of innovation and invention are often inspired by a spark of intuitive genius, rather than being arrived at through a logical linear process.

How can I develop my own intuition?

When we were first born, we had to learn to develop our five senses in order to use them properly. This came with patience and with practice, and probably with some frustration as we learned through trial and error that some experiences could leave a bad taste in one's mouth. The sixth sense also requires patience to learn to develop it. The key is trust: first, trust that it exists; second, trust that you have it; and third, learn to trust it and to trust yourself. Once the basis of faith and trust is established, then the flow of communication can become stronger and stronger. In this way, intuition is like a muscle, the more you use it, the stronger it gets.

How do I connect with my intuition?

The simplest way to communicate with your own intuition is through connecting with your heart and getting in touch with how you feel about any given situation. If you are having difficulty making a decision, close your eyes and think of your choices one at a time. If one option gives you a feeling of joy, of comfort, of excitement, then it is probably the best choice for you. Conversely, if one of your options gives you a feeling of uneasiness, of fear, of reluctance, then it is probably not the best choice for you at this time. This is the easiest way to begin the flow of communication with your own intuitive guidance system. As I have mentioned before, trust is the key. Start with the smaller questions so you can build trust for the bigger issues.

Are there any tools that can assist me to connect with my intuitive guidance?

There are many tools that can assist you to connect with your own intuition. One of the best tools for this purpose is a pendulum. A pendulum acts as a receiver, like a radio, to give you the information you are seeking, whether it is an answer to a question or something you are searching for. The pendulum will provide answers in a way that you can clearly see and feel. There are other tools available as guidance and divination systems, such as Tarot cards, runes, messenger cards, etc. These are often available at metaphysical bookstores. The key is to find the tool that feels comfortable for you. Ultimately, you are your own best source of guidance because only you know what is true for you, and only you can make decisions for your life.


I offer a five minute meditation recording for developing intuition which incorporates the visualization that I use in my work to access and attune to higher guidance

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